Part of having a good marriage is to continue to work on your relationship with you spouse.
Respect for one another is very important. It sort of serves as a foundation for communication in the marriage. From the foundation of respect, lets add honesty.
Being hones with each other can sometimes be hard. Being honest means having to tell the truth about how you feel. For some, this is not easy.
But, work on it. Work on being respectful to your mate. Work on being honest with one another.
There is Hope